This morning I decided to re-read No One Cares What You Had for Lunch: 100 Ideas for Your Blog by Magaret Mason.
And I thought why not try one or a few? So here’s my take on number 36: Swallow Your Pride.
I was brought up Catholic in the 60′s & 70′s, and back then you made your First Communion in the 2nd grade on Mothers Day. My grandmother, who did things in a big way, bought me a frou frou dress, a veil with several tiers of lace hanging from a tiara, and took me for my one and only permanent.
My grandmother thought it would be just the boost for my very fine dirty blonde hair. And it did look sensational that Sunday, I have the photo somewhere to prove it. Then a week later my hair got washed; I looked like a two legged dirty blonde chrysanthemum. But I was what? Seven years old. It wasn’t as earth shattering as it would be now.
Okay, now let’s fast forward to the 90′s. I’m married, I have a child, I still live in the same neighborhood. One day I went to a local Super Cuts for a quick trim. The stylist did a nice job, so about 6 or 7 weeks later I returned to her.
She was delighted to see me, and threw the big apron over my clothes with a flourish.
“Remember when you were here a couple of months ago”
“Sure it’s why I returned – you did a nice job.”
“Well, I was hoping you would come back. When you were leaving the store last time my husband saw and recognized you.”
“Really?”
“Yes, he said that you went to parochial school with him. His name is E****** S**** – do you remember him?”
“No, and I’m surprised that I don’t – I’m usually pretty good with names.”
As I sat there in the chair, former classmates faces began to appear on my mind’s screen.
“That’s why I brought this to the shop, and kept it here.”
She puuled open the big center drawer of the counter, and pulled out – my third grade class photo. There I was in my little plaid uniform with my half grown put permanent, and the pronounced overbite that took four years of braces to correct.
Of course, all the other stylists wanted to see it too. It was all I could do to keep from bolting from the place, huge apron flapping, down Broadway.
I kept my composure, and managed a smile. Just before she finished my hair E* came in, and I was genuinely delighted to see him again.
Hopefully I will never see that photo again.